Love Exiles wedding as seen on @offbeatbride

From Love Exile to legal wedded bliss: get your hankies out for this wedding

At a Glance

After meeting fatefully at a nightclub in D.C., Tamara proposed to Leriche every single day. Tamara had to became a Love Exile in South Africa to allow Leriche to join her as a legal immigrant since the U.S. didn’t allow LGBT sponsorship for partners. They were legally married in South Africa, but their dream of having a ceremony at home finally came true when Virginia passed legislation to legalize same-sex marriage. Come see their joyful story.

Love Exiles wedding as seen on @offbeatbride
Photos by Turner Photography Studio

Tamara and Leriche had a fated meeting in a nightclub in Washington, D.C where they both professed how beautiful the other was on first sight — they each argue that they said it first! They both left with a number on a napkin, the rest was history. (Herstory?)

However, without being able to get married in a country without legal spousal rights, it wasn’t an easy road for these two. For five years, Tamara proposed to Leriche via email every single day. Eventually, Tamara became a Love Exile in South Africa, which allowed Leriche to join her as a legal immigrant. It was in the kitchen of their flat where they got legally married, just between the two of them and their two witnesses.

Their dream of having a ceremony at home finally came true when Virginia passed legislation to legalize same-sex marriage. Their U.S. getting-wedded ceremony was just about four years after they had their legal ceremony.

Love Exiles wedding as seen on @offbeatbride

Love Exiles wedding as seen on @offbeatbride

Love Exiles wedding as seen on @offbeatbride

Love Exiles wedding as seen on @offbeatbride

Love Exiles wedding as seen on @offbeatbride

Love Exiles wedding as seen on @offbeatbride

Love Exiles wedding as seen on @offbeatbride

Love Exiles wedding as seen on @offbeatbride

Love Exiles wedding as seen on @offbeatbride

Love Exiles wedding as seen on @offbeatbride

Love Exiles wedding as seen on @offbeatbride

Love Exiles wedding as seen on @offbeatbride

Love Exiles wedding as seen on @offbeatbride

Love Exiles wedding as seen on @offbeatbride

Love Exiles wedding as seen on @offbeatbride

Love Exiles wedding as seen on @offbeatbride

Love Exiles wedding as seen on @offbeatbride

Love Exiles wedding as seen on @offbeatbride

Love Exiles wedding as seen on @offbeatbride

Love Exiles wedding as seen on @offbeatbride

Love Exiles wedding as seen on @offbeatbride

Love Exiles wedding as seen on @offbeatbride

Vendors

Photography: Turner Photography Studio

6 responses to “From Love Exile to legal wedded bliss: get your hankies out for this wedding”

  1. Sarah Avatar
    Sarah

    Why are there no comments?? This wedding is amazing! Also I LOVE the Bride Hat.

    1. Catherine Clark Avatar

      Everyone’s too busy drooling!

  2. Ashley Avatar
    Ashley

    That hair is AMAZING, OMG!!

  3. stephanie Avatar
    stephanie

    you all look so happy and both of you are stunning.

  4. Amy Avatar
    Amy

    Gah! I was just talking about veil options with my suit-wearing fiancee’. That hat/ veil is AMAZING.

  5. Sabrina Avatar
    Sabrina

    Who did your henna? It’s gorgeous! I’m trying to find someone to do henna for my wedding.

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