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Kelly & Chris’s NY Tea Party Wedding

At a Glance

The Offbeat Bride: Kelly, Make up Artist My Offbeat Partner: Chris, Software Engineer Location & date of the wedding: New York, NY courthouse, and reception at Alice’s Tea Cup. March 20, 2009. What made our wedding offbeat: I bucked tradition by having a mid-day tea party wedding: Everything was exactly like the tea parties I…

Morning of the wedding
The Offbeat Bride: Kelly, Make up Artist

My Offbeat Partner: Chris, Software Engineer

Location & date of the wedding: New York, NY courthouse, and reception at Alice’s Tea Cup. March 20, 2009.

What made our wedding offbeat: I bucked tradition by having a mid-day tea party wedding: Everything was exactly like the tea parties I had in mind when I poured (water) tea for my dolls at age 6!

the girls
The girls eating cake in their AWESOME frilly dresses.

My maid of honor and I wore the most frilly, girlie dresses and hats… it was so beautiful. (Mine was beige and pink and hers was turquoise and pink)

Make up photo

And I wore dark lipstick — to the horror of my mother-in-law!

Chris and Kelly

Our biggest challenge: I could not find any dresses, flowers, hats… I just couldn’t find any non-traditional bride anything! I made most of my wedding attire and did all of the flowers. After I started sewing, two months before my wedding, I opened my own Etsy site. Not finding the right dress has lead me down a new career path!

Our wedding cake
The wedding cake with a vintage cake topper.

My favorite moment: When my new husband and I came out of the courthouse, we stopped to take pictures on the steps and saw a NYPD traffic cop stop and take our picture with her cell phone. She said we were the most beautiful bride and groom she ever saw!

Cheers on our day

Wedding tea party

My fashion advice for other offbeat brides: You didn’t settle for your mate, don’t settle for anything less than your perfect outfit.

I didn’t get my shoes until five days before, but they were perfect and I was so glad I didn’t just settle on whatever to check it off the list.

Somewhere, some how, that crazy dress or hat you imagined is out there. Worse case: design it and have it made.

Leaving Alice's teacup

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28 responses to “Kelly & Chris’s NY Tea Party Wedding”

  1. Annie Avatar

    I saw these pictures in the Flikr pool and I am in love with your style- You should be so proud! Congrats!

  2. Alex Davies Avatar

    Wow I just love those frilly dresses – they are soo cute. Hope you guys had a fab wedding 🙂

  3. Miss Jess Avatar

    GORGEOUS. Love it all. Great job!

  4. Allison Avatar
    Allison

    OMG !! I have bought stuff from your Etsy store and had no idea you were from Offbeat Bride !! YAY !! Your store is wonderful and I am in love with your wedding pics!!

  5. trev85 Avatar

    It looks like you had a great theme for your wedding… and the wedding cake is too cute. Hope it was a great day and guys enjoy many years to come…

    TJ

  6. Kelly Avatar
    Kelly

    Thank you for all the nice comments! I had such a wonderful day–it was absolutely perfect and I am thrilled to be profiled here!

  7. alison Avatar

    your dresses are to die for!! congrats!

  8. Amber Avatar
    Amber

    I absolutly love the maid of honor’s dress! What a doll! You guys are so beautiful and I’m sure you stopped traffic. Make up- amazing. Style- beyond amazing! Congratulations and I wish you many vasty years together!

  9. Me Avatar
    Me

    These dresses are among my favorites on Offbeat Bride. So sassy! Love the pink cake. It’s all very fun and stylish.

  10. Ms Constantine Avatar

    OMG your dresses are amazing! I love the turqouise and pink best because they’re my favourite colours but yours is a perfect twist on the traditional colours!

  11. Mekoro Avatar
    Mekoro

    a tea party wedding is an absolutely adorable idea!! looks like it was a blast, congrats!

  12. jx Avatar
    jx

    completely ADORABLE!
    well done – and felicitations to the bride, congratulations to the groom!

  13. Tracy Avatar

    that has got to be one of the cutest wedding dresses I’ve ever seen!!! love this wedding!

  14. Dani Avatar
    Dani

    Loved the makeup! I love those photos of you and the MOH with the flowers. Amazing colors, love the dresses too!

  15. Olivia Avatar
    Olivia

    Are these Betsey Johnson dresses?! It is adorable! She has the cutest stuff.

  16. Jenn R. Avatar
    Jenn R.

    Such a beautiful wedding. You’ve really inspired me!

  17. Tanya Avatar
    Tanya

    Arent these the Betsey Johnson Tea Party dresses? I’ve drooled over them at her store…theyre amazing!

  18. Melody Avatar
    Melody

    What a gorgeous wedding! Absolutely fantastic!!

  19. maylea Avatar

    I love your frilly dresses! Congratulations on getting married and for the new career path you’ve found… Best wishes!

  20. Cinzialee Avatar
    Cinzialee

    Very cool wedding!! I thought the dresses was so cute too. I too a bride to be and had a hard time finding non- traditional dress and Im a plus size, so I found a tradtional wedding gown at a yard sale in a style that I liked and is currently fixing it up to fit me and adding my own unique style to the gown. So that way Im reusing and it will be one of a kind as well. Anyways congrats to u and best of luck on ur career path!!

  21. nancy Avatar

    the dress, it is so pretty! and i <3 alice’s tea cup… i had my baby shower there. 🙂

  22. Sarah Avatar
    Sarah

    Oh my gosh that is totally my dream wedding! High tea and girly frocks!

  23. Chic 'n cheap Avatar

    Congrats! I love the dress! I want something like that for my wedding! Most importantly, you looked like you had a ton of fun!

  24. sue Avatar
    sue

    you made those dresses? arent those betsey johnson dresses?

  25. Allie Avatar
    Allie

    I am planning a Tea Party Wedding in June of 2010. Your bridesmaid dresses are a total inspiration for me! Thanks so much!

    Ps. Any advice?

  26. Alejandra S. Avatar
    Alejandra S.

    My friend and I were at Alice’s the day of your party!!! and we couldn’t get over how beautiful you and your maid of honor looked!!! Good luck in your marriage adn may you have many beautifully happy years together.

  27. Karen Packard Avatar

    Hey kids, Just read my May info from Alice’s and thought your wedding was the cutest. My daughter and her family used to live next door to Alice’s and then they moved two years ago to Scottsdale and do I miss the
    our little tea room next door….have a wonderful life…karen packard

  28. Ms.Lovebird Avatar
    Ms.Lovebird

    Can I hire you to do my makeup for my NYC Modern Vintage wedding? 🙂 please!

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