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Sheva & Jared’s dark, elegant wedding with a twist of tacky Halloween fun

At a Glance

Offbeat Bride: Sheva, Hairstylist Her Offbeat Partner: Jared, Cad specialist Location & date of wedding: Castle on the Hudson, Tarrytown, NY — October 31st, 2008 What made our wedding offbeat: Jared and I hate the traditional, and dread going to weddings. We decided to throw a huge bash on our favorite holiday, Halloween. To ensure…

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Offbeat Bride: Sheva, Hairstylist

Her Offbeat Partner: Jared, Cad specialist

Location & date of wedding: Castle on the Hudson, Tarrytown, NY — October 31st, 2008

What made our wedding offbeat: Jared and I hate the traditional, and dread going to weddings. We decided to throw a huge bash on our favorite holiday, Halloween.

To ensure that our guests would losen up and have fun we had everyone dress up in costume. Jared wore jeans and we all decided to wear chucks and be comfortable. We got to be ourselves and had a stress free fun day.

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The red dress, the hair, the tatts, the high-top chucks… oy vey! she looks incredible.

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Biggest challenge: We are from Staten Island and we searched high and low for vendors to see our vision. We wanted a dark elegant event with a twist of tacky halloween fun. All we got was attitude as soon as I walked in and they saw my tattoos and I started talking about skulls and a lot of black.

It was not until we headed out to sleepy hollow did we find this stunning castle that loved Halloween weddings.

3227166800 37397e4c38 mMy favorite moment: Having the double doors open and seeing our friends and family in their costumes.

My advice for other offbeat brides: Don’t fight with your fiance! Have fun with planning your wedding.

And don’t settle, you CAN have the craziest, trashiest, most outrageous wedding you want, it’s not illegal.

Care to share any vendors/links?:

Enough talk — show me the wedding inspo!:

32 responses to “Sheva & Jared’s dark, elegant wedding with a twist of tacky Halloween fun”

  1. Kate Avatar
    Kate

    OMG- Awesome!!!!

  2. Jazminealthia Avatar

    That dress is gorgeous! And the corset-lace-up chair covers to match? Fantastic!

  3. Cheebs Avatar
    Cheebs

    This is amazing…wish there was more info on vendors. But still gorgeous.

  4. Pip Avatar
    Pip

    Holy smokes I love her dress. AWESOME.

  5. Angie Avatar

    This is my first comment here (besides, I believe, congratulating Ariel on her pregnancy), but I gotta say if I had my druthers, this is almost exactly the wedding I'd want. Congrats on the wedding, and I love your elegant goth style! Love that dress! Love the cake! LOVE!

  6. Anette Avatar

    If you're going non-white – this is how you do it!

  7. Sunny Avatar
    Sunny

    LUV LUV LUV IT!!!! The pics look amazing!!!! I loved how elegant it was. Congrats!

  8. Emmy Avatar
    Emmy

    I'm guessing that's Fairy Goth Mother corset? 😀

    1. Leah! Avatar
      Leah!

      i have a feeling that it is!
      fairygothmother.com is where i plan to get my dress, too! (but a different one)

    2. sheva Avatar
      sheva

      yep, i got the dress at fairygothmother.com it was suprisingly affordable

  9. Tessa Avatar
    Tessa

    Where did you get that dress? It is amazing!

  10. Emma Avatar
    Emma

    Amazingly dramatic and elegant wedding! More photos please!

  11. Renee Avatar
    Renee

    Wow, you're pretty! And I've entertained the idea of wearing chucks to my wedding as well.

    Also, it saddens me to know you received such attitude from vendors about your vision. Why are people SO stuck inside their vision of a poofy white wedding with doves, diamonds and french manicures? Ergh. How sterile. Give me something dark and romantic any day.

    Congrats & here's to a long happy marriage 🙂

    1. sheva Avatar
      sheva

      Frank Farina was our photographer and we used Daniel florals for everything else. they are both located in westchester, NY. We interviewed a lot of people, and we loved their work the best.

  12. Jen Avatar
    Jen

    I think I might have a new girl-crush in Sheva – spectacular!

  13. DeeJay Avatar

    What amazing photos!!

    Just discovered your site today and really really like it. I'm haunting your archives now 🙂

  14. Steff Avatar

    Is the groom wearing that fab skull-damask jacket from Pyramid Collection? Wow – I've never seen that on a person before.

    http://www.pyramidcollection.com/itemdy00.asp?c=0

    Awesome wedding, and congrats!

  15. ShoelaceGirl Avatar
    ShoelaceGirl

    I almost peed out of delight from the chair covers. I have always thought they looked so ridiculous…until now.

  16. nchanxetsy Avatar

    The bride is just gorgeous. Red dress + chucks = OMGBLISS!

  17. GabHAri Avatar
    GabHAri

    Oh my god what an absolutely gorgeous couple (and your dress is to DIE/DYE for!!) Your wedding looked like one HELLUVAN awesome party!!! Rock on, darlings!

  18. Fiona Avatar

    That dress is absolutely gorgeous. I love it (and the shoes!)

  19. Tarion Suicide Avatar
    Tarion Suicide

    I wish I had thought of that when I got engaged. How awesome! Thats a wedding no one will forget!

  20. GoreJess Avatar
    GoreJess

    I'm getting married this Halloween! Where did you rent those corset chair covers???? Absolutely Beautiful!

    1. sheva Avatar
      sheva

      Daniel Florals in westchester. He was amazing he listened to my insane ramblings and turned the room into a dream.

  21. Serena Avatar
    Serena

    That looks stunning! Congrats!

  22. Stephanie@Geezees Avatar

    wow! her dress is awesome! I LOVE IT!

  23. autumn Avatar
    autumn

    sooo pretty! i love the dress. And the shoes are so pretty bc they wouldn't normally go with a dress they look awesome.

  24. Kell (Boo on OBT) Avatar
    Kell (Boo on OBT)

    Congratulations guys! We share the same wedding date 31/10/08.
    I love your dress so much! I'm off to look at all the other pics now.

  25. Desi Avatar
    Desi

    me and my man r planin a wedding and im all againest the whole white dress thing and i wa thinkin of a holloween wedding myself!!!! i just love the way u look and how all the pic look!!!!! So i hope u dont mind but im gonna use u for an example!!!! thanx!!!!!!

  26. Tave Avatar

    Awesome wedding

  27. Sally Shell Avatar
    Sally Shell

    Not at all tacky, lovely! It’s always nice to have a twist!

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