Why I had a Vows-First wedding
I’m soooo tired of the wedding thing: the planning, the stressing, the fears that I’m not doing it right…and for what? By making my wedding unusual, authentic, personal, and different — okay, offbeat — I’m already almost guaranteeing that it won’t meet everyone’s expectations.
That’s why I’m making mine a vows-first wedding.
Our Unceremonious Ceremony: yes, you can improvise wedding vows!
I scrawled some vows on notepaper the morning of the wedding, and my partner 100% winged it in the moment. I’m sharing these really just to reiterate what Offbeat Bride is all about: I hope you get to do whatever you want on your day.
Macabre wedding reading: I Want to Die While You Love Me
This wedding reading may be a bit macabre for some, but I’ve always loved poems that possess a certain darkness and beauty at the same time. This poem is one of my favorites and is a great way to get some “’til death do us part” or slightly goth vibes into your wedding ceremony…
That’s what happens when you forget your vows: Honest wedding vow examples from real people
Over the past 12 years, we’ve featured some of the most unique and offbeat weddings on the web, and we love adding to massive archive of vow examples examples. That in mind, we’ve got two new examples to share with you today, the first of which was completely ad libbed!