How to uninvite wedding guests (without feeling like a total villain)
Uninviting someone from your wedding sounds like social suicide… but in the age of microwedding guest lists and budget cutting, it’s just good boundary hygiene. From catching rogue RSVPs to pulling back an invite with grace, here’s the Offbeat Wed guide to uninviting without burning every bridge (and maybe even strengthening a few).
A sad mother of the bride asks: “How do I tell my friends I can’t invite them?”
“My 44 year old daughter is planning and paying for her own wedding. The guest list is at 200, and she has agreed to let us invite 6 close friends… but what do I say to all our other friends who may be expecting to be invited?”
I had a microwedding, here’s how I minimized hurt feelings from guests
I only had a dozen guests at my wedding. For those of you who may also be having tiny microweddings due to Covid, here’s my advice for how to talk to guests who weren’t invited and may be dealing with hurt feelings…
Should I invite my dad and brother to my wedding, if they don’t like my fiance?
My boyfriend and I have now lived together for over a year and a half, and have decided to get married (yay!)… But my dad and my older brother still don’t like him. Do I ask them to come to the wedding, or no?