I Do For All – Reenie Panzini
About I Do For All – Reenie Panzini
Did you know that most components of a traditional wedding ceremony are just that…tradition? There are only a few legal requirements that have to be fulfilled during a wedding ceremony in order for you to be considered legally married. What does that mean? It means that YOUR ceremony can be anything YOU want it to be. A Unique Wedding, Non-traditional Wedding, Same Sex Wedding, Secular Wedding, Harry Potter themed Wedding (seriously), Religious Wedding, Romantic Wedding, Bohemian Wedding, Interfaith/Inter-Religion Wedding, etc. etc. If there are things you’ve always loved about wedding ceremonies, we’ll include it. Things that you’ve always hated about wedding ceremonies, forget them! Something you’ve always dreamed of doing during your ceremony but don’t know how? Tell me all about it, I can make it happen!
I’ve been called a “Wedding Fairy Godmother” by more than one couples because I’ve created meaningful, memorable ceremonies with personal touches after only a few meetings or emails. I LOVE love stories, I LOVE to write and I pay attention to little details that a couple may not even realize are details. It’s my intention that you have a ceremony that you’ll remember forever…if that’s what you want.
Services Offered
Included in your Ceremony Fee:
- One in person consultation prior to booking your date. These meetings can be done via telephone if you are not local to Lancaster, PA
- Contact via telephone/text and/or email throughout the ceremony planning process. If you’re really dying to see me I’m sure we can work something out, I’m always up for a coffee chat!
- A one of a kind ceremony written especially for you based on a ceremony profile that you’d fill out and my empathetic writing skills. ; ) Unlimited revisions.
- Preparation and filing of all legal documents required by your County to register your marriage. NOTE: It is the responsibility of the couple to obtain their marriage license from a Pennsylvania County Clerk. ·
Pricing & Packages
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Frequently Asked Questions
Your wedding doesn’t need to fit into anyone else’s template to be meaningful.
If you’re planning something a little unconventional, deeply personal, delightfully nerdy, wildly colorful, quietly intimate, gloriously queer, sensory-considerate, nontraditional, or just very you — you’re my kind of people.
I believe ceremonies should feel safe, joyful, affirming, and authentic from start to finish. That means LGBTQ+ affirming ceremonies without awkward assumptions or gendered expectations. It means gender-neutral contracts and language that reflects your relationship instead of forcing you into outdated traditions that don’t fit. It means understanding that neurodivergent couples may experience wedding planning differently — because as someone with an Autistic daughter and ADHD myself, I get it.
Need flexibility? A little extra reassurance? A judgment-free zone for rambling ideas, emotional overwhelm, or changing your mind six times because your brain is moving faster than your Pinterest board? Perfect. We’ll figure it out together.
I love working with couples who want their ceremony to actually sound like them. Whether that means heartfelt and romantic, weirdly funny, fantasy-inspired, spooky season gothic, Renaissance Faire adjacent, tattoo-and-vans casual, cottagecore, cosplay, bookish, punk rock, or somewhere beautifully in between — I’m all in.
No forced traditions. No cookie-cutter scripts. No pretending to be people you’re not.
Just a ceremony built around your story, your values, your people, and the kind of love that feels like home.
I’m here for the couples who spent years wondering if weddings had to feel performative or exclusionary before realizing: actually, you can do this your own way.
And honestly? Those are usually the best weddings anyway.
I’m experienced in writing and officiating all types of wedding ceremonies, including:
- Non-traditional Wedding Ceremony
- Same Sex Wedding Ceremony
- Secular Wedding Ceremony
- Harry Potter themed Wedding Ceremony (seriously)
- Religious Wedding Ceremony
- Romantic Wedding Ceremony
- Bohemian Wedding Ceremony
- Interfaith/Inter-Religion Wedding Ceremony
That’s ok too. To each his own, I don’t judge! Just let me get my legalities in and off you go!!
Elopements
Yep, I do those too. I’ve lost count of how many couples I’ve married in a local coffee shop. They should name a latte after me…hmmmmm
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Love from Offbeat Couples
We looked over Renee’s website, we knew she would be perfect for us. Reenie did an excellent job at making our ceremony personal to us as a couple. Neither my husband nor I had been to many weddings, so we were unsure of how typical ceremonies go – but Reenie was able to walk us through each step, going over what a traditional ceremony would normally contain and helping us decide what aspects we wanted to include on our own. Reenie was very receptive to our feedback on the first draft of the script, though we did not need to make many changes! She did an amazing job at creating a well balanced ceremony that our religious and non religious guests could connect to. The day of our wedding, Reenie arrived (on time!) and we got to say hi and express our thanks before the ceremony. The ceremony went off without a hitch! What was very helpful and also unexpected, was that she assisted us with the marriage license and ensured that it made it to the state we got married in perfectly on time. Reenie made our ceremony truly special, and made all the paperwork simple. We received compliments on the length and content of the ceremony, and we are so thankful to Reenie for ensuring our big day went smoothly!
Reenie’s ceremony for us was, in a word: perfection. She was endlessly kind, incredibly professional, and the words she gave us for our ceremony were heartfelt. She perfectly encapsulated our love story and gave us a ceremony we’ll never forget. Our friends and family kept saying how wonderful she was on the big day! We cannot thank you enough, Reenie. We couldn’t have tied the knot without you (literally, you sent in the marriage license), and we can’t recommend you enough for weddings! If you’re looking for a thoughtful, LGBTQ+ friendly minister with a passion for love and a wonderful way with words, look no further than the incomparable Reenie Panzini.
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Reenie Panzini
I’ve lived in Lancaster, Pa. for nearly 20 years with my husband, three kids, 2 dogs, and a turtle named Fred who is around 35 years old, watches television and scratches at the glass of his tank if you block his view. I kid you not. Fred is a very odd turtle.
