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Lara & Hunter’s tea party wedding with feathers and hats

At a Glance

Teapots, cucumber sandwiches, and cake on the best man’s face? It’s a tea party wedding turned upside down. Add in fancy hats, a retro venue, and a wild dance party, and you’ve got this sweet little wedding in Washington. And when it comes to this bride’s hat, there was nothing to do but put a bird on it!

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The Offbeat Bride: Lara

Her offbeat partner: Hunter, MMA Coach, Fighter, and Gym Manager

Date and location of wedding: The Crystal Ballroom at the Leopold, Bellingham, WA — May 1, 2014

Our offbeat wedding at a glance: We actually didn’t want a huge wedding, and we both wanted to get married in different seasons, so we compromised and met in the middle. He wanted summer and I wanted winter, so we chose spring. I really enjoy tea parties and vintage style, so I got to decide on that part, and Hunter got to pick the food. We both agreed on fancy hats and tons of dancing since these fit both of our personalities. With the help of family and friends, we spent $2000, mostly by buying things online.

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Tell us about the ceremony:
We had our friend Nicole perform the ceremony, we read our own vows, and used ribbon for a handfasting. I had been in a lot of weddings before, so we kept it short and sweet, but I did cry!

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Our biggest challenge:
Stress was a challenge. Some of our family members are very traditional. I started out doing what people expected of me only to realize I needed to do what I wanted or I was going to miss out on really making it about us. I really learned that pleasing everyone is just not possible.

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My favorite moment:
I loved helping everyone get ready at my house and doing my mother-in-law’s makeup. There was also some smushing of cake in Hunter’s brother’s face as well as his wife’s, since they got my husband at their wedding when he was the best man. We also loved the dancing and singing karaoke with everyone.

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My funniest moment:
My grandparent realizing I had a fake bird on my hat was a very funny moment.

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7 responses to “Lara & Hunter’s tea party wedding with feathers and hats”

  1. Angela Avatar
    Angela

    Guh TO DIE FOR! Lara’s dress is spectacular, and everything looks so happy in the photos!

  2. Kirsten Avatar
    Kirsten

    The cake cutting photograph is CUTE AS BUTTONS!

  3. Jenny Avatar

    That dress is A.MAZ.ING. You look so lovely!

  4. Dootsie Bug Avatar

    I have a collection of fancy hats, so it’s always been my plan to incorporate them into my wedding. I love, love, love how you did it.

  5. Teresa Senu Avatar
    Teresa Senu

    Lara is a friend of mine, I am so sad I missed the wedding (I had moved) !! The wedding was so much like Lara’s snd Hunter’s personality, I can tell by the great pictures! What a beautiful couple!!

  6. Livie_Marie Avatar
    Livie_Marie

    Can I just say that everything about this wedding is spectacular, but gah..the hats! THE HATS. The bride’s dress with the hat? Freakin’ fabulous. You look like you should be on the cover of a magazine called Sassy and Glamour Gorgeousness. FANTASTICO!

  7. Cyndie Avatar
    Cyndie

    Cuties!

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